Nadelik Lowen

 We all have our own views on Xmas, our own ways of celebrating or not, our own beliefs and I respect that.   For me it is about family, I don't go in for all the rest of it, it's not about lots of expensive presents or huge Xmas meals, it is about my family getting together.  It is a time when I remember those who are no longer with us, and those who are far away.  To sit down and share a meal, exchange little gifts and to spend time together.   We go for a walk on the beach and are grateful for living in such a beautiful place.  We settle down in the evening, light the fire and are grateful we have a home.  We are making memories that our children will look back on with a smile. They won't remember the gifts, they will remember our time together.  

For many people, these simple things are not possible.  They may be alone, they may not have a home or food to put on the table.    There is so much pressure on people to have the 'perfect' xmas, but life isn't like that.   In my various jobs I have worked with homeless families,  with people in debt and also on a very busy domestic abuse helpline over xmas.  Life is far from perfect and xmas makes life even more difficult for many people.

So my wish for you all is that you have a peaceful and safe xmas, and if you are lucky enough a happy xmas.

Nadelik Lowen (Happy Xmas)

Chickpea xx